They Were Here. They Mattered. They're Remembered.
Maybe you only had weeks. Maybe you had months. Maybe you held them once, or never got to hold them at all.
But they were real. They were wanted. They were loved.
And you carry them with you every day, even when the world acts like you should have "moved on" by now.
Gone But Remembered helps you honor that love.
We deliver gentle reminders—ultrasound photos, footprints, the few precious images you have—on a schedule that feels right for you.
Begin Remembering
Pregnancy Loss Is Isolating. It Doesn't Have to Be Silent.
Society doesn't know how to talk about miscarriage, stillbirth, or infant loss. So often, it doesn't talk at all.
- •Friends change the subject
- •Family members say the wrong thing (or nothing)
- •The world expects you to return to normal on a timeline that makes no sense
But inside, you're carrying a love that has nowhere to go. A grief that has no culturally acceptable outlet.
Gone But Remembered doesn't expect you to "get over it." We help you carry the memory forward, in a way that fits your life.
What Can You Remember?
Every loss is different. Every memory looks different. Here are some of the images parents include:
Ultrasound Photos
The first time you saw them. The heartbeat that changed everything.
Hospital Keepsakes
Footprints. Handprints. The tiny hospital bracelet.
The Room You Prepared
The crib that never got used. The clothes that still have tags.
Symbolic Images
The butterfly that appeared at the memorial. The sunset on their due date.
Whatever Helps You Remember
There's no right or wrong. If it helps you feel connected, it belongs.
Special Dates Deserve Acknowledgment
The due date. The anniversary. The day you found out. The day you said goodbye.
These dates live in your heart whether or not they appear on any calendar. Gone But Remembered makes sure they're not forgotten:
- ✓Automatic delivery on dates that matter — We remember so you don't have to add calendar reminders
- ✓Extra photos on hard days — Surround yourself with memories of them
- ✓Gentle preparation — Know a difficult date is approaching
The world may not acknowledge these milestones. We will.
Grief Together, Even Apart
Partners often grieve differently. One may want to talk about it constantly; the other may process silently. Different timelines, different styles, same loss.
Family Circle lets both parents receive the same photos:
- ✓Same memories arriving at the same time
- ✓Opens conversation without forcing it
- ✓A shared experience of remembrance
You don't have to grieve the same way. But you can remember together.
For Parents Who Believe They'll Meet Again
Many bereaved parents find comfort in faith—the belief that their baby is somewhere peaceful, waiting.
Gone But Remembered honors all beliefs:
- ✓No specific religious language (unless you want it)
- ✓Space for hope and continuing bonds
- ✓A way to keep your child present in your daily life
Your beliefs are yours. We're just here to help you remember.
Thoughtful Features for Tender Hearts
Pause Anytime
Some days are too hard. Some weeks are too much. Pause deliveries with one click. Resume when you're ready.
Private and Secure
Your photos, your memories, your grief. We never share, never sell, never use your images for anything except delivering them back to you.
SMS or Email
Photos can arrive as a text message (immediate, personal) or email (more private, can be read when alone). Your choice.
AI Context That's Gentle
Our AI adds soft context to photos—but always with care. We focus on love, not loss. What we add is always editable.
Simple, Compassionate Pricing
Remembrance
~$4/month
$49 billed annually
- ✓25 photos
- ✓Unlimited memorials
- ✓5 family shares
- ✓Email delivery
Legacy
~$7/month
$79 billed annually
- ✓100 photos
- ✓20 family shares
- ✓Crop & rotate editor
- ✓AI-generated captions
Forever
~$11/month
$129 billed annually
- ✓300 photos
- ✓50 family shares
- ✓SMS delivery included
- ✓Priority support
Monthly billing also available. View all options →
Price should never be a barrier to grieving. If cost is a hardship, please contact us. We offer reduced rates for families in need.
Request Assistance →Words From Other Parents
"People told me I should be 'over it' after a few months. My daughter was real. She was wanted. She was mine for 22 weeks. Getting her ultrasound photo every Sunday morning reminds me that my grief is valid and my love is ongoing."
"We lost our son at 38 weeks. Stillbirth. The hardest word I've ever had to learn. We have exactly 12 photos of him. This service delivers one every month, and each time, I get to remember his face, his tiny fingers. We named him James."
"After three miscarriages, I had almost nothing physical to remember them by. I took photos of the positive tests, the vitamins I took, the onesie I bought too early. This lets me remember them all—even though the world says they 'weren't real yet.'"
Frequently Asked Questions
I don't have many photos. Is this still for me?
Yes. Even a few ultrasound images or symbolic photos can be meaningful. We work with whatever you have.
This feels too sad to do. Is it healthy?
Grief experts agree that maintaining continuing bonds with loved ones—including babies—is healthy and healing. This isn't about staying stuck; it's about honoring their memory while you live your life.
Can I include photos from multiple losses?
Yes. Many families have experienced more than one loss. You can create separate memorials or combine them—whatever feels right.
What if my partner isn't ready to participate?
That's okay. You can set this up for yourself. If they want to join later, you can add them.
Is this religious?
No specific religion is promoted. We welcome all beliefs and none. The language is spiritual but not denominational.
I'm worried this will make me sadder.
We hear this often. Most parents report that scheduled reminders actually help—it removes the anxiety of "should I look at photos today?" and lets the memories come naturally.
You Don't Have to Forget to Move Forward
There's a myth that healing means moving on. That to be "okay," you have to stop thinking about them.
That's not true.
Healing means carrying them with you. Not as a weight, but as a part of who you are now.
Gone But Remembered helps you do that. One photo at a time. One memory at a time. For as long as you need.
Your baby was here. Your baby mattered. Your baby is remembered.
Start Your MemorialSupport Resources
You don't have to grieve alone. Here are organizations that understand:
October 15 — Pregnancy and Infant Loss Remembrance Day
Crisis Support
If you're struggling with thoughts of self-harm, please reach out to the 988 Suicide & Crisis Lifeline (call or text 988).