Your Brain Forgets. That Doesn't Mean You Don't Care.
You loved them. You still love them. But days go by—sometimes weeks—and you realize you haven't thought about them.
It's not your fault. It's how ADHD works.
"Out of sight, out of mind" isn't a character flaw. It's a neurological reality. Gone But Remembered delivers photos of your loved ones directly to your phone, so you don't have to rely on memory alone.
Why ADHD Makes Grief Different
If you have ADHD, you already know these struggles. Here's what nobody tells you about grief.
Object permanence is hard
If you can't see it, your brain decides it doesn't exist. This isn't laziness—it's neurology.
Emotional permanence is harder
People who aren't physically present can fade from your active thoughts—even people you love deeply.
Guilt compounds everything
You forget to text back. You forget birthdays. And now you're forgetting to grieve?
This is common. You're not broken. And there's a tool for it.
The same way you use phone alarms and sticky notes, you can use automated photo delivery to remember the people who mattered most.
How It Works (The ADHD-Friendly Version)
No apps to remember to open
Photos arrive via text or email. You don't have to do anything except exist.
No decisions to make
Upload photos once. Set a schedule. We handle the rest. Zero daily cognitive load.
No guilt when you need a break
Pause anytime. Resume anytime. Your brain has enough to manage.
The Simple Setup:
Upload photos (10 minutes, one time)
Pick a schedule (daily, weekly, whatever)
Receive memories (automatically, forever)
That's it. No maintenance required.
"I Have Photos Everywhere. I Never Look at Them."
Sound familiar?
- •Photos on your phone you scroll past
- •Albums on your computer you forget exist
- •Physical prints in boxes you haven't opened in years
- •Google Photos libraries with thousands of images
The photos are there. But your brain needs push notifications, not pull.
Gone But Remembered turns your scattered photo chaos into a simple, automated system. Upload once, receive forever.
What ADHD Users Are Saying
"I felt like a terrible person for not thinking about my mom more. Then I learned this is literally how ADHD brains work. Now I get a photo of her every morning with my coffee, and I actually FEEL connected to her memory instead of guilty about forgetting."
— Alex, diagnosed ADHD at 32
"My therapist suggested putting photos around the house. I tried that. They became invisible within a week. A text message? That actually breaks through."
— Morgan, ADHD-PI
"This is basically Todoist but for grief. I didn't know I needed it until I had it."
— Jamie
Features Your ADHD Brain Will Actually Use
Scheduled Deliveries
Pick your frequency and forget about it (literally). Daily, weekly, or custom schedules that just work.
SMS + Email
Text messages cut through the noise. Emails for when you want more detail. Your choice.
Special Date Reminders
We'll remember birthdays and anniversaries so you don't have to keep them in working memory.
One-Click Pause
Overwhelmed? Pause deliveries instantly. No guilt, no explanation needed. Resume when you're ready.
AI Context
Each photo comes with thoughtful details—season, context, captions. Helps your brain re-engage with the memory.
Zero Maintenance
Set it up once. Never think about it again. The system handles everything automatically.
Simple Pricing (No Hidden Complexity)
30-day money-back guarantee. If it doesn't work for your brain, no hard feelings.
Remembrance
Getting started
$49 billed annually
- • 25 photos
- • Unlimited memorials
- • 5 family shares
- • Email delivery
Legacy
Most popular
$79 billed annually
- • 100 photos
- • 20 family shares
- • Crop & rotate editor
- • AI-generated captions
- • Email delivery
Forever
Full featured
$129 billed annually
- • 300 photos
- • 50 family shares
- • SMS delivery included
- • Priority support
Monthly billing also available. View all options →
Frequently Asked Questions
Is this really for ADHD, or is that just marketing?
It's genuinely built with ADHD challenges in mind. Every feature is designed to require zero ongoing effort—because we know your executive function is already maxed out.
What if I get overwhelmed and need to stop?
One click to pause. Seriously. And when you're ready to restart, your photos and settings are exactly where you left them.
I have thousands of photos. Do I need to organize them?
Nope. Upload them in whatever chaos they're currently in. Our system will handle delivery. You can mark favorites if you want, but it's not required.
Can I set it and literally forget it?
Yes. That's the entire point. Upload photos once, pick a schedule, and never think about it again. The memories come to you.
What if I forget I signed up for this?
Then it's working exactly as designed. You'll get a photo, feel that moment of connection, and remember why you signed up. That's the whole point.
You're Not a Bad Person for Forgetting
ADHD already makes you feel broken in a hundred small ways. You don't need grief to be another one.
Your brain works differently. That's not a moral failing—it's neurology. Let us remember for you. You just show up for the moment when it arrives.